Today, we’re delving into a topic often veiled in silence: the intersection of yoga and sexuality. In our society, discussions about sex are often shrouded in taboo, yet understanding this aspect of the human experience is crucial for holistic well-being.
Physiological Changes in Male and Female Adolescence:
In the journey of male adolescence, there’s a physiological phenomenon worth noting. Before the age of 13, the male body is not equipped to handle the release of semen (known as “sukkilam”) due to the delicate nature of its nerves. It’s a natural safeguard mechanism. However, as a boy transitions into adolescence, typically around the age of 13, the body undergoes significant changes, fortifying its nervous system to manage the veeriyam and the release of sukkilam (semen) occurs.
Similarly, in the female experience of adolescence, there’s a parallel process at play. Upon reaching puberty, the girl’s body undergoes intricate changes. The sukkilam of the girl will go to her uterus. Interestingly, the concept of “sukkilam” in females is nuanced, and divided into three distinct types, namely suradham, sukkilam, and shronidham.
Ritual of Rasamani: Enhancing Intimacy and Connection
The practice of tying up the sukkilam in the body of men and women is called Rasamani. The ancient tradition of Rasamani, derived from the Tamil words “rasam” meaning sukkilam, and “mani” akin to a bell, signifies the sacred act of tying up the sukkilam within the bodies of both men and women. This profound practice is performed through Rasavadham, a technique that harnesses the vital energy known as jeevasakthi, using the power of Vayu (wind).
Whether individually or together, men and women engage in the ritual of sukkilam tying, enhancing their connection on a deeper level. The intertwining of energies during this sacred practice elevates the experience of intimacy, transcending the physical realm into one of profound spiritual significance.
Spiritual Insights and Practices:
During sex in men, the jeevasakthi, is the air flowing outside as sakthi (energy). This energy, essential for all actions and endeavors, finds its way back to the center of consciousness, nestled between the eyebrows, merging with the essence of Sivan, the supreme consciousness. This convergence marks the attainment of the sacred state of Siva Sakthi.
When the potent energy (Sakthi) returns to the body in the place between the center of the eyebrows, the sukkilam is melted by the force of sakthi, and the sukkilam is carried by sakthi to the penis propeling it outward, facilitating the union with the female reproductive organ. The veeriyam of the nerve is called sukkilam.
Consciousness and Awareness in Intimacy
Similarly, in women, a parallel journey unfolds. Yet, there exists a subtle divergence. Alongside the sukkilam, the energies of ‘suradham’ and ‘shronidham’ emanate from the center of consciousness, descending towards the female reproductive organ.
Thus, in the intricate symphony of creation, the convergence and flow of energies between men and women weave the fabric of life’s eternal dance.
In Yogic philosophy, there exists a unique understanding of the physiological processes involved in conception and gender determination. According to this perspective, the act of intercourse involves a subtle interplay of energies and fluids within the bodies of both partners.
In men, it is believed that during ejaculation, only a substance called “sukkilam” is expelled, which is said to be propelled by air. This is believed to be the reason why sukkilam feels warm or hot to the touch.
Mutual Ideology, Consent, and Respect in Practice
Women, on the other hand, are thought to release fluid from the uterus during sexual intercourse. This fluid is said to serve the purpose of opening the mouth of the uterus, allowing another substance known as “shronidham” to enter. Shronidham is described as blood. After the mouth of the uterus is opened, the shronidham of women and the sukkilam of men combine to form a new life.
In the context of gender determination, the sequence of entry of sukkilam and Shronidham into the uterus plays a crucial role. If Shronidham enters first and falls above the sukkilam or vindhu and combines with it, the child is likely to be female. Conversely, if sukkilam or vindhu precedes first and then if Shronidham falls above it and combines with it, the child is likely to be male.
Importance of Spiritual Guru’s Guidance
In instances where sukkilam and shronidham fail to combine, it is believed that the resulting mixture with blood is considered impure. This impure blood is said to be naturally expelled from the woman’s body during her menstrual period, which typically occurs every 28 days. This menstrual cycle is often symbolically associated with the lunar cycle, reflecting the deep connection between the human body and the wider universe according to Yogic principles.
Individuals immersed in spirituality are encouraged to direct their energy, known as “sukkilam,” towards its source, which lies between the center of the eyebrows, rather than allowing it to dissipate in the reproductive organs. By doing so, they can attain profound wisdom and spiritual insight.
Remarkably, this wisdom isn’t solely reserved for those abstaining from sexual activity. Great siddhars, revered spiritual figures, have emphasized that one can access this wisdom even during intimate moments.
Ritual of Rasamani: Enhancing Intimacy and Connection
Spiritual couples who share the same ideology and are inclined towards self-realization may choose to engage in what is referred to as “yoga way sex,” as suggested by Thirumoolar in the Thirumandiram. According to this ancient text, this practice is believed to be exclusive to couples who are spiritually aligned and committed to their mutual growth.
We are created by the combination of our parents’ sukkilam, which holds immense power. Imagine if this energy, sukkilam, is conserved and directed upward, rather than dissipated downwards, it can lead to profound spiritual experiences and self-realization.
Thirumoolar’s teachings encompass various factors concerning this practice, including dietary considerations, the frequency of engaging in sexual activity, optimal timings, and more. These guidelines are aimed at maximizing the spiritual benefits of the practice and fostering deeper connections between partners.
Directing Energy Towards Spiritual Realization
It’s important to note that this practice requires a deep understanding of spiritual principles, mutual respect, and consent between partners. Additionally, it is not universally practiced or endorsed, and individuals should approach it with caution and guidance from experienced spiritual mentors or practitioners.
In the practice of Siddhar tradition, it is believed that the vital energy, known as sukkilam, within both men and women, flows downwards only during the act of intercourse. Siddhars advises that one should aim to harness this energy by directing it towards the source, located between the center of the eyebrows, using the power of breath. To achieve this, both partners must share the same spiritual ideology and support each other in their journey. Through the practice of this form of yoga during sexual union, fatigue can be mitigated.
Conclusion:
During the intimate connection, it’s essential for both the spiritual husband and spiritual wife to maintain consciousness and awareness. When they become cognizant of the sukkilam’s movement within their bodies, they can utilize specific breathing techniques to guide and consolidate this energy at its source. However, mastering this practice requires guidance from a knowledgeable spiritual guru who can lead both partners through the intricacies of this ancient art.
It is advised by Siddhars to engage in sexual activity twice a month, specifically at night. The Yogam way sex practice can also involve preparation akin to traditional lovemaking, including applying fragrances and enhancing physical appearance to facilitate a deeper connection. During Yogam way sex, the goal is to reach a state where the sukkilam, or energy, is harmoniously intertwined. This is achieved through breathing techniques imparted by a spiritual guru.
Partners engaging in Yogam way sex can sustain the act for up to two hours, focusing on tying the sukkilam at its source. Success in this practice requires both individuals to share the same ideologies and possess a determined mindset. Through this shared endeavor, couples can experience a heightened sense of connection, transcending the physical realm to attain a divine state.
